I never dreamed that we would not be back in school. I’m still in shock and awe. We live in California and our governor has not given the okay for schools to resume in person. The 2020-2021 school year has begun in a virtual format for every kid in our state. I don’t want to make this a political post, but I will say that my heart is pained over this decision. I hurt for the kids who come from homes that don’t have an environment that can encourage learning or afford devices or internet. I am disappointed for my own children who miss their friends and the opportunity to learn in the classroom. I’m selfishly missing my own time when I work, run errands, pop into the gym, or grab a coffee with a friend.
We have been home for 180 days – just shy of HALF A YEAR! In some regards I’m proud of how we’ve rallied and made it work. There’s been a lot of juggling to work from home and have everyone home. I of course treasure this time we have together, but we have had to figure out new ways to live in our home and find our own space. Having the routine of school has been a welcome adjustment, even if it is virtual school.
Much of quarantine I’ve resisted making things too fun or special because that felt like I was accepting our situation. I’m usually one to rally and make the most of a moment, but turns out pandemics throw me right off my game. It’s taken me nearly 6 months, but I’m starting to enjoy our life at home. I have really found my way since school started. Speaking of school starting, aren’t these shirts I found on Amazon cute? I noticed myself coming around when I felt the urge to get these shirts for our first day of school at home. Maybe you have a struggling student who could use some positive school vibes. Amazon has tons of cute shirts like these.
- Level Complete- continue to 8th grade
- Rainbow 6th grade
- Roaring into 2nd grade
The shirt purchase got the ball rolling for more school at home fun. Jack and Annabelle had birthdays the first week of school. I couldn’t help myself and I decorated their rooms. Jack was horrified, but to be fair he’s 13. Annabelle appreciated the effort and even joined her google meet with crazy clown glasses. So even though we didn’t get to send cupcakes to school to share with friends, the day was memorable, especially when Grandpa stopped by with donuts.
If you’re curious what virtual school looks like, our kids log in at 8:30 am and they each have a teacher streaming LIVE from their classroom much like a normal school day would go. This is a change from the Spring and it’s working well for us. I keep eyes and ears on my Charlie who is in 2nd grade, but Jack (8th grade) and Annabelle (6th grade) are working well independently. I keep close tabs on their grades and and use that as our gauge for how much hovering they need from their mother. I’m really impressed with how their teachers have adapted to teaching via a google meet. It’s not as good as learning in person, but I’m satisfied that they are getting a well-rounded education and they won’t be behind.
I think a big part of our virtual school success has been figuring out good workspaces and establishing our rules and routine. I found a folding desk on Amazon (linking the category because ours are out of stock). I set Charlie up in our living room each day and we put it all away when school is over. It’s quite handy that these desks fold and store so easily.
Charlie and I have been running together on his morning break. It’s my favorite time of the day. Another silver lining moment to our current situation. I’m basically his recess buddy and we’ve already worked our way up to a mile. This healthy habit has left us both energized and encouraged to go about our day.
This post is rambling on, but has anyone been a reader since 2012 when I reviewed these Kleenslate boards? They continue to be a wonderful product that we use for educational purposes or even on a game night. I couldn’t resist a plug for a great company. Charlie’s been using his white board every day for math class.
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I have to admit, when I saw all the back to school photos this year of kids around the country getting on the bus and actually going to school, I was jealous and had a pity party. I want that so much for my own kids too. I can’t help but think of the Bible verse, Philippians 4:11, that says to be content in whatever state or circumstance we are in. God has had to work in a big way on my heart, but I’m getting there.
We did receive a smidge of good news this week. Our school applied for a waiver to open K-6th grade. Charlie and Annabelle will be able to go back to school by the end of the month. It’s a baby step in the right direction. Jack will be home with me, but that offers a unique time for the two of us to spend time that I wouldn’t have if it wasn’t for a pandemic. Only 20 some schools in our county have been given this privilege to go back so we are quite thankful.
I’ve been guilty of complaining and feeling blue at times during the pandemic, but don’t forget that your kids are always watching. When I’m tempted to be negative about wearing a mask, cast insults at a political leader for decisions I don’t agree with, or complain about our church not being allowed to meet inside, I’m equally convicted to be a good example. My anger doesn’t change a situation so I need to find more productive and respectful ways to voice my opinion and desires for change.
Thanks for listening to me write. I didn’t realize how much I had on my heart. If your kids are smiling at the end of the day you might be doing something right. Keep taking the high road and don’t let the events of this year bring your down.
“Approach each endeavor or problem in a fashion that is above pettiness, to travel the moral high ground and behave decently.” –Grammarist website
